Retirement Guru: The Bitterness of Missed Travel Opportunities

CW Fong
2 min readMay 22

As I sit here, a 65-year-old retiree, I am filled with regret. I am no longer young and fit, and my retirement dream of traveling is but a dream.

I, therefore, implore you to seize the chance to explore the world while you’re young and able. In my youth, the flame of wanderlust flickered brightly within me, urging me to venture beyond the confines of my comfort zone. However, work obligations and excuses drowned out that longing. I prioritized stability, career aspirations, and societal expectations over the call of distant lands.

Today, as my body weakens and health concerns dictate my every move, the realization of missed experiences settles upon me like a heavy fog. I see others sharing tales of breathtaking landscapes, vibrant cultures, and transformative encounters, and I can’t help but feel a pang of envy.

Traveling when you’re young offers a myriad of advantages. It provides an opportunity for self-discovery, a chance to uncover hidden facets of your identity. It introduces you to new perspectives and challenges your preconceived notions. These experiences shape you, moulding your character and broadening your understanding of the world.

Regrettably, the physical limitations that come with age hinder the exploration I yearn for. The energy and resilience I once possessed have waned, and my body no longer cooperates as it once did. The freedom to embark on grand adventures diminishes, and the opportunities to engage in physically demanding activities dwindle.

But perhaps the greatest anguish lies in the memories I never created. The stories left untold, the laughter unshared, the friendships unformed — they haunt me. Traveling when you’re young allows for connections and relationships that endure through the passage of time. It’s an opportunity to forge bonds with fellow travelers and immerse yourself in the lives of locals, weaving a tapestry of human connections that enrich your soul.

So, dear readers, I implore you not to repeat my mistakes. Do not postpone your dreams of travel until it’s too late. Embrace the world with open arms, for it offers a wealth of experiences that will shape your life. Seize the chance to explore, to learn, and to grow while your body is strong and your spirit untethered.

May my story be a cautionary tale, a reminder that the weight of regret is far heavier than the burden of stepping into the unknown. Don’t let the bitter taste of missed opportunities be your legacy. Travel while you’re young, for the world awaits you with open arms.

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CW Fong

I blog therefore I am. Passionate about #Singapore, #Leadership, #PublicRelations, #SocialMedia, #Marketing, and #PersonalDevelopment. Above all, I do no evil